We have all heard the benefits of eating dinner together as a family. From eating healthier food, to becoming more involved in their family's lives, dining with parents is an important part of a kid's day.
"Hold on, Miss Michelle....where are you going with all this? I thought this was a reading blog!"
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| WAIT! WHERE'S THE READING?! |
Not to fret, my pet! I'm here to tell you that sitting at the table with your kids need not be terrible, boring, or stuffy. Oh no...dinnertime is the perfect time to do fun activities with your kids. They won't even know that they're learning. Promise.
One fun thing to do: Talk about your day! Not just the how-was-your-day-oh-it-was-fine banter...really talk about what you did or saw. This helps kids visualize and use their imaginations. Instead of saying, "After work, I came home" you can say "After work, I drove my red car home. On the way, I saw brown cows. Do you know what cows say? Yes, that's right...MOOOOO. What things are brown at the table? Yes, the gravy on these wonderful mashed potatoes is brown."
See the difference? Using descriptive language and questions aids in imaginative thinking! Wahoo!
Another fun thing for dinner table fun: reading aloud. One of my heroes,
Jim Trelease, the read-aloud guru, advocates reading aloud at dinner time. You may think that it's odd, but reading aloud before or after dinner can become a fun family tradition. You don't have to corral everyone around a 600 page novel...you can just read a magazine article, or maybe something in a newspaper. This makes print more apparent in your home, and can easily become part of your routine. Reading at dinner will spark lively conversation as well, and if you have been paying attention, you'll know that lively conversation was point number one!
Playing games. At dinner. Yes, I said it. Playing fun games like trivia or twenty questions can help your kids think creatively and engage them while the casserole is in the oven. Ever been to a pizza place that has Trivial Pursuit cards at the table? The pizza seems to be at your table a lot quicker, right? Kids can read the cards, or just play along. Even if you don't have trivia cards, you can play 'I Spy,' or 'Name all the Things.'
I think I just made up a game, you guys! Sweet!
'Name all the Things' is when you say: "Name all the things that start with 'R'" or "Name all the things that are orange." Kids can then name all the things that they can think of that fit the description. I think I might go play right now...sounds fun to me!
Place mats are another cool dinnertime prop for kids. My five year old has several alphabet, map, color, and shape place mats that I bought at Walmart for about $2 each. Not too shabby for a multitasking item! Place mats are super easy to make as well. You can use Con*tact paper to "laminate" the design you want. Maybe this is a new Crafty Gal project!
Do you have other ideas to add? I want to hear them! Please leave me a comment if you have something awesome to do at dinnertime that promotes learning!